Here's some friendly tips that could help you.
1. Clean all stuffs - keep all the things that makes you reminded by your EX. eg. any pictures that has image with your Ex, cards, mobile numbers, and all of the things in general. Put that in a box and set aside up to you what you will do either you burn it or just put that into your garage. MAKE SURE YOU WONT SEE EVEN THE SHADOWS OF THOSE STUFFS.
2. Avoid to open up about him - if possible tell your friends and family not to mention what had happened about you and your ex, or some topic that might lead to talk about your Ex. Cos if you do all of the heart aches would rewind and that makes you angry.
3. Never plan to get revenge - what for? if your Ex hurt you, betrayed you then leave it and ignored it. its not good to get revenge either by planning a trap its too complicated to do this so don't do.
4. Go out and have fun - this is the best part of being single to have fun. Call your friends for a night out and chill out. You deserve some happenings don't deprived your self staying at your room crying over. Express your self always to lessen the pain.
5. Make your self busy - do some things that makes you busy like sports, reading, attending some voluntary works to help other people. By this your mind is busy so wont able to think about your Ex.
6. Eat Healthy and Sleep Right - by this you will bring back the blooming aura that you had lost during the days you are problematic.
7. Always Pray - this is the best tool among all the rest if you have strong faith to God he will help you in many ways for fast moving on. Keep in mind that this are all trials of life. everything happens for a reason. So relax God has a good plan for you.
8. help your self - all i had mention won't work if you do not cooperate with your self , the mind speaks different to what your heart feel it's like battling your heart with your mind, you will find difficulties in doing all those stuff. YOU CAN EASILY FORGET YOUR EX IF YOU ARE DECIDED WITH NO DOUBTS. SO YOU SHOULD BE SINCERE AND WILLING TO DO IT.
9.Go for a vacation - if it is so hard for you to move on cos you still in the place where you are so broke. Take some vacation for you to have time to your self and unwind.
10. Single and always ready to mingle - keep that in mind that how good it is to be single. Good luck in mingling new people.
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